the guy came off as completely untouchable

he would drink and drive

he would pressure to work for him

fairness was always in his favor he could never agree on others terms

take 11$ and buy a 6 pack you get three I get three well I drove and bought it you drink slow can I get 4

that would end in having something taken away

he asks you to forge legal documents like it's no big thing doesn't tell you what the forge is for

and when you say no he throws a tantrum

he played the big man but when anything was needed he would go small

he made such a big deal about things like property tax

but he would make 3 girls sit at home with no ac in texas

you could call the cops 10+ times on him for making you angry they would do nothing

you could try to get him sent to retirement or nursing homes no one would do anything

he always had money to pay for things at the house or on the vehicles

but he never just had money

but he always had money

he couldn't see you were working and making money

and his jobs were making you lose money

lose all your medicine and lose your mind having to plan your days to work for him and not get any of your stuff done

his same argument something needs to change

and you ask nicely pee outside(30 min pees) try not to shout cuss words at the tv dont drink at the house no more jobs I have to work or i'll go no where in life

and of course all that gets pushed to the side he wants you to change for him not him to change for you

get told your mom and sister are fat pieces of shit and you are a joke

tell him you don't like when he talks like that and don't like he won't change

and he goes off the edge about how weak of a sissy you are for even considering him changing

always being the big man for a second then going back to be a little man

he asks what he can do to make you happy

you request money for your medicine

he disowns you for smoking weed basically calls it your drugs

he gives you money once

but does all his stuff again

and won't even give when you really need it

which is pretty often

everything comes down to going to work with him

you buy an ounce and over half the ounce is gone by the time you finish work

in a matter of like 4 days

smoking wrong

not smoking and being done

you stop smoking and are getting angry at everything

you stop drinking and hell is let loose

he gets to drink all day long and has money to do that

you have no money left

you paid bills you bought food

and you got zero fun

you've had enough of him being untouchable

you finally take a step forward and get that change that both of you want

he doesn't want to kick you out because you work

but he does want to kick you out so you can grown up

but while he is going through both of those

he's getting harder on you by the day

eventually you get away

don't have to smoke or drink

all money goes to bill

but at least in less than 2 years you can get back to having your own fun

which you might not even like anymore 

but odds are you'll love it more than you ever did

you never need to deal with him again

you finally got away