the more I realize my ideal age of a significant other is 45+

I'm 31

obviously I can't go under 18

21 is young

most other 28-31 already taken or complicated

30-40 basically a dead zone

so if I want a happy relationship with another female

I'm looking at about 45

and if they have teens or young adults as kids i'm just there to be like their step dad and treat them like kids

and it's going to be that way for a long time