It's a library atmosphere

Not the whore house

You go at a set time 2 days a week

You drop a business cart or slightly caress hands while picking a book

You need clean clothes food pets a running vehicle a job and extra money to spend

Takes about 3 months for your first chance at getting to go on a picnic

That's the dating settings / atmosphere

Casually work in each other's schedules

Meet by sly chance

New gf for a couple weeks